Here’s a clear breakdown of how the Drag Queen Wedding Crasher act works — from arrival and setup to the iconic “It Should Have Been Me!” entrance and the unforgettable reactions that follow.
Once your booking is confirmed, Your Wedding Crasher will gather a few key details about your wedding — the venue, timings, your DJ or sound provider, and the best moment for the surprise entrance. They keep everything discreet so the act remains a complete shock to your guests.
To keep the surprise intact, the performer can not bring any sound equipment. The venue or DJ must provide:
This ensures the act blends seamlessly into your wedding without drawing attention beforehand.
The Drag Queen Wedding Crasher arrives quietly at the venue, usually 30–60 minutes before the planned entrance. They may:
The performer stays out of sight until the exact moment the music begins.
The entrance can happen at almost any point in your day — the key is that it feels unexpected. Popular choices include:
When the music starts, the performer bursts into the room and the surprise begins.
As “It Should Have Been Me” plays, the drag queen moves through the room, interacting with guests, playfully teasing the groom, and creating a hilarious, high‑energy moment that fills the room with laughter. The act is fun, cheeky and completely wedding‑friendly.
The performance usually lasts the duration of the song, though this can vary depending on your chosen performer.
Once the song ends, the performer typically leaves the room to maintain the surprise effect. They may return shortly afterwards for:
This gives you a chance to capture the moment forever.
Here’s an example of the Drag Queen Wedding Crasher moment in full swing: